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What to do if your marriage is falling apart at the seams? Current advice
Reluctance to have sex, irritability, routine - these are the top indicators that you have let the relationship take its course, and you need to save it. The hosts of the reality show about relationships and the rules of life "Exy" (New Channel) Alexander Pedan and Natalya Ezhova in the magazine "Good Advice" gave some practical advice that they use themselves.Please take note of the following information. marriage is bursting at the seams 1. Look for problems in yourself “If your wife annoys you or your children make you angry, then first of all sort yourself out,” says Alexander Pedan. — As a rule, negative feelings grow out of problems not related to the family. Perhaps you are undervalued at work or do not earn as much as you would like. Never put this on your significant other or children. Dig into yourself, and then the decision will come by itself. The most important thing is to speak about your experiences in a timely manner. 2. In your intimate life, get down to details. “The more attentively you approach the issues of foreplay and sex, the better quality they will be,” shares Natalya Ezhova. - It's like eggs - you can cook them in different ways. Scrambled eggs in a frying pan and poached eggs with sauce - different levels of taste. Diversity is also important in intimacy: try fast and slow, gently and roughly, deep and shallow, angle of inclination, places of kissing, places of sex... If you have already worked out sex in bed in detail, then you can come up with hundreds of new locations and methods! marriage is bursting at the seams 3. Speak up! Discuss! Share! “In any situation or issue in a relationship, you need to talk,” the presenter advises. “People are often afraid to do this, but talking can really solve most problems.” Checked! If something happens wrong, it means that someone is missing something or doesn’t like something. This can only be learned from dialogue. If we talk about sex in this context, then if you don’t want something, it doesn’t mean that your partner doesn’t want it. Ask him, try to shift the focus away from yourself. It's much more fun when you try to please your partner. Believe me, he will answer you and even surprise you. 4. Remember that you are an example for your child. “We can’t say that children can save a marriage, but in fact they greatly strengthen the relationship,” the presenter shares. — They motivate not only in terms of personal growth or success at work, but also in relationships. They are tempered. The understanding comes that you are an example for your children. Then you pay more attention to how you communicate in your family. Everything you say now, your child can say to his significant other in the future. |
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